Perhaps we should change the way we talk!
One of the things I enjoy most about the approaching new year is seeing the replays and highlights of the previous year. Ironically this year I noticed something that I think needs to change quickly. I find more and more the media and social media are becoming an outlet for discrediting people more than anything else. Tragically social media has become the stomping ground for insulting, discrediting and tarnishing other people’s credibility without justification.
Israel bashing in the United Nation, Trump bashing in the news and religious bashing are only a few on a long list. The difference between being concerned and bashing someone because you don’t agree with their opinion runs a fine line. It reflects our personal inept, hate, intolerance and lack of respect. Because we are people we are all prone to falter at least once in our life. Our approach to calling out a misdeed is correct but it should reflect sensitivity, respect and a chance to improve. Blogs, social media and news outlets continue to make the world a smaller place but there should be an equal amount of sensitivity. Tragically too many people are using it to destroy decent people. Condemnation without due diligence is unacceptable and needs to stop. All people have feelings just like you.
So here are some possibilities for the new year. If you see an issue:
Join or start an association to tackle the problem. There are many lobby groups that would appreciate your support. Use constructive criticism because we all want to be better people. Remember that what we write or say can not be erased. And yes, words kill! People are killed every day because of what people say and write so be very careful.
Free speech is wrong and used more often to hurt others. Fair, just, honest, sensitive respectful speech should be the correct ammendment.
When in doubt remember the following:
Wise men, when in doubt whether to speak or to keep quiet, give themselves the benefit of the doubt,and remain silent. Napoleon Hill
HAPPY NEW YEAR!